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View submission: He's seeking female 19-39
A 19 year old is still figuring out who they are. Older men who seek 18-20 year olds are moreso looking for someone who is controllable due to lack of encounters with abusive men like themselves.
Older women understand what they're up to much earlier in the relationship. There is less chance of getting an older woman pregnant and baby-trapped.
Comment by PrestigiousEnough at 27/01/2025 at 08:35 UTC*
27 upvotes, 1 direct replies
Yeah. They never ever have good intentions for us when we’re young. So we know the type of men that they are because we’ve had the same experiences.
All they do is just traumatise young women. Then these are the same ones that say ‘women get bitter once they get older’. Gee you think? You’ve used them up, manipulated them and abused them whilst they were growing up then you wonder why most are hesitant and have their walls up with you once they become much more older and wiser? Think a little harder. lol
Comment by Ausernamenottaken- at 28/01/2025 at 23:39 UTC
1 upvotes, 1 direct replies
Thanks for your real and genuine answer instead of jumping down my throat like everyone else here.
Comment by Antiantiai at 27/01/2025 at 20:52 UTC
0 upvotes, 1 direct replies
But where are you getting 18-20 from? That isn't relevant to this particular scenario. He's looking for 19-39. Aka. Trying to find a partner that might want to start a family.
If he was looking for 18-20 it'd be an entirely different motivation. But we know that's not his motivation, because we're hearing from the 39 year old he's trying to date...