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View submission: He's seeking female 19-39
A 34 year old man does not want to “start a family” with a 19 year old.
Let him go.
Comment by haleorshine at 27/01/2025 at 00:50 UTC
327 upvotes, 2 direct replies
... And if he does, gross. Like, if he knocked up a 19yo, he's tying her to his gross self for the rest of her life, before she's had a chance to really even live.
Or if he got together with a 19yo and was like "We'll have kids when she's a little older", it's one of those situations where men think because they potentially can have kids when they're much older, that it's fine to do that and leave all the work of raising a kid on the younger woman. 🤮
Comment by PrestigiousEnough at 27/01/2025 at 08:32 UTC
41 upvotes, 1 direct replies
Right. lol. They hardly ever settle down with these women. Despite how ‘young’ they are. All they do is traumatise them. We all know because we’ve all been there before. This idea that they want something genuine with us when we’re young is a facade. The average marrying age is 28-35+ for women in the west for a reason. 😅😴
Comment by chaosmosis at 27/01/2025 at 01:30 UTC*
-104 upvotes, 0 direct replies
It's possible that he wants different types of connections depending on the person who matches with him. Men don't stop being interested in sex the second they start trying to find a relationship.
An age gap is a diagnostic indicator that something might be wrong in a relationship. It isn't bad in itself, it is only bad if there are bad behaviors alongside it. The older party has control over whether or not the age gap plays out in a bad way, the start of an age gap relationship does not transform a man into a prisoner of fate who will be forced to exploit and abuse his partner.
Comment by Ausernamenottaken- at 27/01/2025 at 00:47 UTC
-199 upvotes, 7 direct replies
Why wouldn’t a man want to start a family with a 19 year old? What’s your reasoning?