Comment by VastStory on 06/11/2024 at 18:57 UTC

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I have a theory that some men want a great woman (who doesn't). But since he can't improve her, he ruins her a little bit instead to show he has an effect at all. Like putting a stupid monument in nature or a tall skyscraper to pierce the skyline.

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Comment by adeathcurse at 06/11/2024 at 19:20 UTC

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This is a perfect representation of my experience. I'm not saying I'm "great" but I'm capable and it feels like my husband goes out of his way to weigh me down and make me less capable.