Comment by Famous_Sugar_1193 on 10/03/2025 at 00:42 UTC

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Yeah sorry but a girl friend group being comprised of people catty with each other and jealous of each others abs or boobs doesn’t really compare with men staying friend with sex offenders and not just the abusers of others…. But like in your example with their own Hardcore abusers.

Which of course doesn’t mean women don’t also sometimes stay friend with heinous abusers.

People aren’t generally very good at all. Like at all.

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Comment by StronkWatercress at 10/03/2025 at 13:18 UTC

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Yeah I mean, male friend groups also come in jealous catty tons of routine drama flavors. I was just agreeing with you that a lot of men stay friends with shitty abusive people because you brought it up, but yes, men also have more routine types of drama even if people like to act like women have a monopoly on frenemy groups.

And yes women excuse heinous abusers too. I was disappointed to find that even some progressive self-professed "i support women" women will handwave say, sexual assault, if it concerns a man she "knows".