Comment by ashinary on 08/03/2025 at 20:28 UTC

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View submission: What's something you never understood about the opposite gender?

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i'm in a situation with #1. i really like everyone else in a group of like 15 people so i dont want to stir anything. id rather deal with the one person than stir any drama and potentially lose my better friends for being on the other persons side. they'd probably still talk to me but it would end up being a case of "okay which of the two do we invite?" and that's not fair to them. it's just easier to be nice

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Comment by StronkWatercress at 08/03/2025 at 20:40 UTC

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Yeah every time I've seen this happen, people end up picking sides. Either someone gets ousted completely, or the friend group explodes.