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Same, i only have friends who lift me up and i them. I would only ‘gossip’ about a friend if i am worried. Like the time a friend was considering taking in her drug addicter SIL and we talked about it to agree we should try to convince her not to.
Comment by TheMildOnes34 at 08/03/2025 at 20:39 UTC
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I will cut out someone who is vindictive or two-faced so fast. Snip snip bitch, move out the way. That came with age though..I have a handful of ride or die friends. The moment someone tries to talk shit on a mutual friend to me? I'm out because if you'll talk shit to me, you'll talk shit about me.
I really really value loyalty and transparent.
Comment by WestofEden5 at 08/03/2025 at 21:52 UTC
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I don't care if my core girls gossip about me with each other, because I know ultimately they love me and want what's best for me and it's not malicious.
When I was making Poor Decisions I knew they were discussing how stupid I was being with each other, but they were also saying it (lovingly) to my face and being gentle and patient while I figured my shit out.
When a girl I had met once started talking to shit to one of my best friends about me, that's a different story. You don't know me like that, you haven't earned the right to have an opinion about my life. My friend shut down the conversation with her real quick.
Comment by carorosebaker at 09/03/2025 at 04:21 UTC
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My friends and I gossip about each other to each other, we have a spoken but unspoken agreement that you can talk whatever shit you want as long as you understand that it’ll go around and there could be conflict