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I was going to downvote this but 80% of it I agreed with. I’ll let you all figure out what part I didn’t agree with.
Comment by BendingDoor at 03/02/2025 at 19:28 UTC
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Some parents are terrible. I think we all know that by now.
Comment by Letstakeitoutside at 03/02/2025 at 20:34 UTC
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It’s possible that because you don’t agree it’s still reasonable advice.
Comment by Even_Werewolf1772 at 04/02/2025 at 05:29 UTC
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I guess you don’t agree with the compromise part. În my own experience compromise plays a big role in a marriage.
What I failed to mention is that I am not talking necessarily about big compromises but the small ones that make the difference, for example I worked as a bartender all my life and every night I was out in a pub/bar because în my small town i knew every bartender and waiter and it was like going to a friend, after marriage I started to go with my wife and skipped some nights just because she wanted to watch a movie.
Another example is that I was used to play video games on sundays from 8 am to 1-2 în the morning, after marriage I started to play less and go out with my wife more.
What I mean by saying compromises is that you can give some small things away that won’t change who you are but make your relationship much better, the amazing part is that I saw her making compromises as well and I just can say it is amazing.
If you are stubborn and won’t compromise at all there is a chance your partner will get fed up at one point. I know you should find someone that appreciates you the way you are and gives you the freedom to enjoy your hobbies but sometimes it’s hard to find the perfect one.