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View submission: My boyfriend says I’m privileged
what a take– are you him 🤣🤣🤣
Comment by SheLivesInTheStars at 06/02/2025 at 16:49 UTC*
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No I just don’t see only black and white lol. I don’t just think because someone acting out that they’re a “bad person”
There are reasons why people act the way they do, and instead of just judging someone to be a jerk I try to look behind it a bit, at the human being, or inner child that’s still hurting. The fact is, we are all human and to some degree, all have that hurting inner child. Doesn’t matter how many people wanna ignore that fact, I won’t and won’t just shit on someone by my own judgement because there’s almost ALWAYS more to it than that. Most people are completely unaware that they are being toxic, and that’s kinda sad if you ask me.
Do I think she should stay? HELL NO. Because this isn’t healthy, and nor is his mental health. Unhealthy doesn’t mean he’s a bad person though, and that’s all I’m saying.
You have the option to believe what you like, but I certainly try to look behind the hurt and see the “hurting inner child.” not just call someone a bad person and call it a day.
Anyways. Have a lovely day.