Comment by occasionallystabby on 06/02/2025 at 04:51 UTC

26 upvotes, 1 direct replies (showing 1)

View submission: My boyfriend says I’m privileged

You know you're allowed to break up with people who treat you poorly, right?

You're allowed to have time to yourself. You're allowed to spend time with your family.

This man is toxic AF and should really see a therapist to reconcile his traumatic past rather than trying to make you feel bad about not being abused. It shouldn't be considered a privilege to *not* come from dysfunction.

Please want better for yourself than this.

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Comment by Former_Reputation341 at 06/02/2025 at 05:28 UTC

-10 upvotes, 10 direct replies

Yea it’s just been very hard for me I’ve become attached to him. I feel he’s more intelligent than me and he makes better decisions. He’s always been loyal to me but there’s a controlling aspect of him too. It’s not terrible but could be so much better. Little things like this I’ve allowed it to degrade who I am.