Lately I've been finding myself wanting to re-connect with people from my past. What are some good ways to do this without Facebook? I am tempted to re-join that corporate monster for this purpose alone.
7 months ago
some of those people search sites list emails and phone numbers but of course you have to pay 路 7 months ago
no backup? then I don't really feel sorry ;) as a former sysadmin, i always told my users to make backups... 路 7 months ago
@bavarianbarbarian I lost all my phone contacts in 2020 and they were not backed up anywhere. Life also just sometimes drives people apart. 路 7 months ago
first. I'd think about why we lost contact... in my whole lifetime i have only met one 'friend' from the old times after 25 years... with alle the others i am in constant contact. 路 7 months ago
@danrl If I ask someone else to reach out they're just going to do it by Facebook anyway. 路 7 months ago
@softwarepagan so what do you have, then? their first and last names? what about name changes, e.g. based on marriage? usually friendships form networks, so you ask one to reach out to the other one to ask for their email (as entry point). if you indeed lost everyone from a circle of friends and have to start from scratch then facebook or linkedin would be necessary, if you can鈥檛 google their email. the hard part is deleting the account afterwards. they play dirty to make you stay. 路 7 months ago
Whatever you decide just make sure you really don鈥檛 stay on facebook. It will make you stay in hundret of ways. 路 7 months ago
@danrl I have *lost contact.* I do not have email addresses or phone numbers. If I did, I would use them. 路 7 months ago
email worked well for me for this purpose. and then texting or making the occasional call. 路 7 months ago