Hello, are you me? We seem to have similar interests! Except for the "libertine polyamorous" part, but I'm sure we can manage.
There's another difference, whereas you may be a software pagan, I'm more of a software heretic, iconoclast, and maybe even a downright satanist!
Good thing I'm an adult who can disagree with my friends, lol. I get along with anyone who tries to be decent, live up to their responsibilities, and keep their word.