someone i worked with more closely than before over the past few months (due to a shared project at work) has decided to end his life recently. it is very hard to understand their decision.
4 months ago
@istvan this was helpful. indeed, no one can make sense of what happened. 路 4 months ago
Had a friend I worked with on hobbies for nearly two decades kill himself. Not a week goes by that I don鈥檛 think about it. Lots of people made up lots of reasons or theories about why he did. None of them were right: we are all ultimately trying to make sense of a decision that makes no sense. The hardest thing is accepting he was not well, and there wasn鈥檛 one thing that could have changed it short of having him committed, and even then only temporarily. Very sorry for your loss and any of his surviving family. 路 4 months ago
thank you all 馃檹鉂わ笍 路 4 months ago
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Sorry to hear that. Had something similar happen to me some years ago. Still feeling the shadow of it. More reason to be kind, when you can swing it. 路 4 months ago
I hope you're all good, danrl, I'm so sorry this tragedy has gone down. I understand something like that can be jarring, and even unsettlingly confusing. this world is cruel to a lot of people in need, and maybe some feel it difficult to express why and what their complications involve. God rest their soul, condolences to their family and loved ones. 路 4 months ago