< intense emotions in regards to software
Howdy!
You are not alone. I sometimes subtly exercise the right to refuse. I refuse to package half baked stuff that will fail rather sooner than later. I sometimes argue "well, it has MY name tagged to it, not yours!" But I am in a very comfortable position to do this. I do specialized stuff that is needed so early in the production chain, that the shortcomings on my desk are going to be fixed long before $product hits $customer.
Do not despair!