I'm done with online save for business operations, pure research, and email with established correspondents.
It's been a long, fruitless journey of hoping against hope in search of there being something of social substance available here.
To all who chance upon this, you don't have to goad yourself anymore either. Just stop and enjoy the here/now from one moment to the next. You wouldn't believe how much better reality is unmediated by a screen.
Bye!