So what do you do when you've pissed her off, but what you did is not really the main ingredient, because when you listen to her complaint - to an above-average open mind - it's clear her reasoning isn't so me reason as ego justifying its existence?
if rationality is not the answer, then acknowledge her feelings
Reason did not get her mind into this, and it won't be what gets her out.
There are two theories about arguing with women... neither one works!
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