The surprising benefits of living beyond your means

2016-04-15 03:12:43

50 Cent says he s done it. Why not you? The art and science of leasing a

lifestyle.

By Mark Johanson

13 April 2016

Scroll through rapper 50 Cent s Instagram feed and you ll find a preponderance

of photos where he basks in unimaginable riches.

There s the shot where the rapper, real name Curtis James Jackson III, can t

seem to find his legs because they re buried under $100 bills. There s another

where he s stocked his refrigerator with bundles of greenbacks. More confusing

still is a snap where the rapper arranges his lunch money ($100 bills) to

spell out the word broke .

Do you know someone who leases a lifestyle to live above their means? Tell us

about it here.

That last image is the most telling. Jackson filed for bankruptcy in July last

year, claiming debts of between $10m and $50m, according to court documents.

But when the 40-year-old was summoned to a Connecticut court in the US this

February, the judge explained that she was having trouble reconciling the man

in front of her with the man in those Instagram photos.

The rapper s creditors had tipped her off to the Instagram account, according

to the New York Times. Jackson s response was as simple as it was unexpected.

The piles of notes were prop money , he wrote in documents filed to the court.

Just because I am photographed in or next to a certain vehicle, wearing an

article of clothing, holding a product, sitting next to what appears to be

large sums of money or modelling expensive pieces of jewellery does not meant

that I own everything in those photos.

Everyday people are leasing a lifestyle beyond their reach in order to project

an image of power.

The rapper is hardly the first person to prop up his public image with borrowed

finery. It s an open secret in Hollywood that much of the clothing and

jewellery worn by celebrities has been seeded , or loaned, to them by fashion

brands. And those lavish cars? They re often leased (or even rented) from

high-end dealers who specialise in working with athletes and stars.

And it s not just celebrities; an increasing number of everyday people are

leasing a lifestyle beyond their reach in order to project an image of power

and authority they hope will give them an edge.

Worth the investment?

Image consultant Marian Rothschild, author of the book Look Good Now And

Always, said making small lifestyle changes to give the appearance of wealth or

power can often prove to be a good long-term investment for professionals.

Consider it investing in your personal brand.

People these days are realising, I need to up my game for what I believe my

potential is, where I want to go, and how I want my life to be. So I m going to

make this investment by buying this Rolex watch, or leasing this gorgeous car,

or overextending myself on my wardrobe for this season , she explained. It s

kind of like a peacock extending its feathers and saying, look at me .

A recent survey from global staffing service OfficeTeam found that 80% of

executives take clothing choices into account when considering an employee for

a promotion, while a similar study at Korea s Yonsei University found that

interviewees with clearly branded luxury clothing were more likely than their

competitors in cheaper clothing to not only win the job, but also receive a

higher salary.

It s kind of like a peacock extending its feathers and saying, look at me .

The study concluded that the job candidates instantly increased their status in

the eyes of others by actively signalling that they could afford the luxury

brands and were, thus, seen as higher up in the hierarchy of capitalism.

Carol Megehee, a co-author on the study and professor of marketing at Coastal

Carolina University in the US, said that how and when you wear a prominent

brand can have a big impact on your target audience s unconscious bias. But it

might not always be positive.

If you re a woman who is going in to interview with another woman you may not

want to over flash with luxury brands because it might actually work against

you, she explained. Megehee noted in her study that brand logos had

considerable benefits in most interactions, but there was a clear gender bias

between women where, at least anecdotally, she believes jealousy may be at

play.

Renting the runway

Julie Fisk had a 25-year career as a radio host when she lost her job in 2014

and decided to relaunch herself as a full-time film critic. The new role

required her to appear on two TV stations, as well as make public appearances

in her hometown of Dallas, Texas. That included attending events where she d

have to interview famous actors and directors.

Faced with the prospect of more time in the spotlight and a need for statement

clothes she turned to Rent The Runway, a service that allows people to borrow

for a fee designer dresses at a fraction of the cost of buying them.

Never would I be able to just go out and buy a Carolina Herrera dress for a

one-off situation, but I could rent one, Fisk explained. Then she rented

another dress for a different event, and, meanwhile, her new career blossomed

and the number of public appearances she booked increased.

Eventually she went out on her own and inked partnership deals with local

businesses in the Dallas area that would loan out clothing and accessories in

return for promotion, including plugs on her blog Julie Says So.

If you feel strong and magnetic and feel like you look like a million bucks,

then that s going to translate.

Even if an employer or the person who s attention you re trying to get doesn t

recognise that you re wearing a designer dress or fantastic suit, how you feel

inside of it definitely makes an impact, Fisk said. If you feel strong and

magnetic and feel like you look like a million bucks, then that s going to

translate.

Studies show that how we dress for an occasion does indeed affect the way we

feel about ourselves. That, in turn, influences how others may perceive us.

Researchers at Northwestern University, near Chicago, Illinois, call it

enclothed cognition, noting in a 2012 study that dressing for the part helps

us to mentally prepare for the task at hand.

Ownership is so last year

Ron Conway, a prominent Silicon Valley super angel investor, proclaimed at a

recent Goldman Sachs conference that there had been a seismic shift in the

American Dream . People, he said, now prize access over ownership.

Rent the Runway is but one example of the many ways this burgeoning trend has

crept into the professional arena. Comparable services like Girl Meets Dress

and Yeechoo are available in the UK and Hong Kong respectively, while others

like Eleven James (available in the US, with plans to go global) focus on

delivering luxury watch rentals under an annual membership model. Some

services, like LeTote or Gwynnie Bee, send an entire wardrobe for use and

return, on a monthly subscription model.

There are similar services where one can rent designer suits, jewellery or

bags. And if leasing a luxe sports car isn t flashy enough, you can join a

private jet membership club like JumpJet or NetJets for steep discounts on

chartered flights. Or use a service like Victor, which offers empty leg

flights (the return portion of a booked one-way trip) at up to 75% off the cost

of a conventional charter.

How much is too much?

Of course, leasing a lifestyle can turn from a wise investment to an unhealthy

ego trip pretty quickly. Being honest with yourself about overextending your

budget without tangible professional results is key to avoiding that trap, said

Rothschild.

Are you spending rent money on renting clothes, for instance? Maybe you ve gone

too far.

Rothschild believes if you want to be seen as responsible, reliable, worldly,

and competent, then it s important to strike the appropriate balance between

being genuine while ensuring that every element of your personal brand stays

in alignment with how you wish to be known.