< I care but I don't but I do but I don't
> Go on a walk with your partner. Don't say a goddamn thing > unless they do. Bring up the shelf again. See whether the > discussion escalates again. If so, go for another walk with > them. Repeat ad infinitum.
Now why in hell would I want to ruin a perfectly good walk? ;-)
Do a miserable task with your partner. Don't say a goddamn thing unless they do. Bring up the shelf again. See if the discussion escalates. If so, do a other miserable task.
Ah, marriage :-D