Thanks for such an insightful comment.
Didn't know there was research about the upper limits for online "personal connections" (I'm sure mine personally is well under 140). And offline life over online is a good rule, I try to do it already but just realized that the feeling of pressure is part of the offline life, even if it happens in response to online events. It's interesting how easy is to get mixed up what happens online from what happens offline (as well as what happens in your mind and what happens outside of it).
"It's interesting how easy is to get mixed up what happens online from what happens offline (as well as what happens in your mind and what happens outside of it)."
That's the nub of it. The online leaks into the offline and that for me is the red flag to say "hol' up". I forget from time-to-time too so best of luck with it.