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My wife just left me after 10 years. What movies should I watch.

2010-03-14 04:10:43

Pretty much sums it up. Turns out the wife is dating someone else. Found out yesterday morning. We agreed on divorce last night. I peaced out.

My emotions are all over the place. I'm all fucked up. In a big way too.

Since my thoughts are trying to do me in, movies are a needed distraction. Thinking is not my friend at the moment.

I'm open to suggestions. I need something that is rather engrossing.

Damn. Even I'm surprised at how fucking crushed I am.

Thanks,

Edit: Thanks for all the suggestions. Rather than to make the decision myself I'll just watch the ones with the most votes and work my way down. I'm in no shape to make a decision.

Edit 2: I picked up a shit ton of booze, 10 cartons of cigarrettes, quit my job and unplugged the phone. My cell phone is in a parking lot. Dont know if this effects the recommendations.

But my advice is to forget watching movies and go be with friends. Interact with people and don't sit around alone with your thoughts and allow yourself to wallow in self pity. Connect with friends and let them help you talk your way through this. It will get better. Hang in there. If you are insistent on watching movies, watch guy flicks and don't go anywhere near a love story.

Remain social even though it seems to be the last thing you want. Talking to friends about it has helped the most. Talk until your sick of talking about it. Also, try really hard to avoid purposefully getting people to pity you, because they will and it just makes it harder on them and you. Pity is the enemy.

HIT THE WEIGHTS

Even if you have never lifted in your life, start now. Getting yourself in great shape is your best route to recovery, plus it makes you feel GREAT after you are totally exhausted from a long weight session. Releases all your stress and tension to when you exert yourself fully, plus, there is nothing better than working out with HATE in your heart- best motivation ever!!

EAT WELL. Beer and smokes fuck your body up. This bitch already fucked your life a little, dont let her fuck up your body. YOU WILL FEEL BETTER eating well. (EAT FRUIT!!- I love empire apples) Smoking and drinking will make your body feel worse, and that will make your mind difficult to keep in a good place.

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