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you can love someone and still need someone else. my last relationship ended on pretty amicable terms, and i still feel a kind of love to that partner. and yet i also have my current partners, and i love them. the end of a relationship doesn't mean you stop loving the other person, and that's ok c:

who knows what the future holds but i don't think there is such thing as "the one", instead there are many, many who have different reasons to love them. and you may end up with one of the many, but be assured that there is always others and that's ok.

the idea of "the one" is seen as romantic but to me, the many is much more romantic. there are many people i could love and be happy with and i chose these people i am spending my life with.

i guess this is to say whatever the future holds, it is not unlikely that you will find someone new c:

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~tetris wrote:

I'm not a believer in "the one" either, but out of the few people I've dated, I can tell you that she is special. She was so easy to hang out with, and maybe sometimes that was boring and maybe we occupied our own headspaces -- but there was no drama, no friction. I don't think I've ever been happier.

But yeah, I guess we will see what the future holds