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Keeping Meetings on Track When You re Not in Charge

2016-04-29 09:04:43

Ron Ashkenas

April 22, 2016

Meetings frustrate everyone. There are too many of them, they take too much

time, and not enough gets done during and after.

It s easy to blame this on others the higher-ups who invite us, arrange the

agendas, and chair the meetings. We just show up, make our presentations, and

try to sound smart.

But we are all accountable for keeping meetings effective, whether we are

calling them or simply participating. If you are in charge, there are obvious

steps you need to take, most of which are covered in the countless books and

training courses about meeting management. If you re not officially in charge,

the things you should be doing to help keep everyone on track might not be as

clear but this doesn t mean you re off the hook. If you passively and

repeatedly attend poorly conceived and run meetings, then you re contributing

to the problem by reinforcing the bad behavior of others.

While challenging a meeting leader can be difficult especially when that

person is your boss or a senior manager if you find the right way to do it,

you can save everyone some valuable time.

In a large technology firm, for example, the CEO led a bi-weekly meeting of her

top 20 people to review the business and make key decisions. Although the CEO s

chief of staff prepared an agenda in advance, the CEO was a passionate, curious

person, who had a tendency to go off on tangents. So the meetings lasted

longer, often going hours beyond what was originally planned. Eventually, a

couple of the CEO s direct reports suggested to her that a third-party

facilitator be brought in to the meetings to help keep things on track. Much to

their amazement, she agreed. Rather than being offended, it turned out that she

too was feeling that the meetings were becoming inefficient but wasn t sure

what to do about it.

People won t always be this cooperative or open to feedback, so employees

should be prepared for resistance and tread with caution. In one company I

worked with, for example, the CEO liked to use his staff meetings to review

business reports line by line as a way of identifying problems a practice

that frustrated the team since everyone could read the reports ahead of time

and identify the issues in advance. When members of the team pushed back, the

CEO told them that this was the way he had run things for a long time and

insisted (in less than polite language) that he was not going to change a

thing. They then backed off, and only streamlined the review process after he

retired.

The point is that it takes a certain amount of courage to push back on someone

else s meeting, and it s unlikely that you ll always be successful. But if it s

clear that something has to be done in your organization, here are two

strategies that you might consider:

First, think about the standard principles for planning a productive meeting

having a clear purpose, inviting the right people, sending out pre-work,

developing an agenda and start your feedback there. If any of these can be

improved, it could have a big impact on meeting efficiency and outcomes. Plus,

these are tangible issues that can be discussed rationally with your boss or

other senior people. Most importantly, this conversation doesn t require you to

delve into a subjective assessment of meeting management behavior.

In one company, senior people were sending subordinates to regular meetings

when they couldn t attend. The problem was that they were sending these

substitutes so frequently, it had become difficult to actually make decisions.

Finally, a manager approached the boss about this policy. She walked through

the reasons why having substitutes was helpful (they can represent their teams

interests, and for the substitutes themselves, attending these higher-level

meetings supported their development), and why it might be problematic (the

practice caused delays in decision-making and sometimes hurt team dynamics).

Based on this, the boss was able to provide guidelines for when substitutes

would and would not be allowed.

A greater challenge is how to give feedback on the way someone else

(particularly, someone more senior) actually runs a meeting.

You certainly can t say, This was a lousy meeting, and here s what you should

do to make it better. But you can offer the leader some easy assessment

mechanisms that will help her reach her own conclusions about how well the

meeting is being conducted. This can be a meeting process checklist that people

fill out anonymously, a survey that participants can complete online, or quick

questions that everyone discusses at the end of every meeting. One manager

suggested to his boss that they conclude staff meetings with a structured

two-minute conversation in which everyone says what was good about the meeting,

and what should be done differently the next time. Naturally, after the first

few meetings, most of the feedback was positive, but eventually people started

testing the waters about possible changes. Eventually this led to crisper

decisions, less off-target discussions, and generally more efficient and

productive meetings.

With the amount of time that meetings take up, it s crucial to remember that

even if you re not in charge, you can contribute to a meeting s effectiveness

and productivity, particularly through small acts of courage. It might not

always work, but doing nothing won t work any better.

Ron Ashkenas is a Partner Emeritus at Schaffer Consulting. He is a co-author of

The GE Work-Out and The Boundaryless Organization. His latest book is Simply

Effective.