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Why kissing means more to women

2007-09-03 04:58:13

If a picture is worth a 1,000 words, so may be a kiss - or certainly to a woman

anyway, researchers say.

A New York State University team quizzed over 1,000 students, finding women

place a big emphasis on kissing.

They use kissing as a way of assessing the recipient as a potential partner,

and later to maintain intimacy and to check the status of a relationship.

But men placed less importance on it, using it to increase the likelihood of

sex, Evolutionary Psychology reported.

The questionnaires revealed men were less discriminating when it came to

deciding who to kiss or who to have sex with.

While both sexes participate in the adaptive benefits of kissing, we found sex

differences when considering the pursuit of short-versus long-term mating

strategies

Dr Gordon Gallup, lead researcher

They were more willing to have sex with someone without kissing, to have sex

with someone they are not attracted to and agree to have sex with someone they

considered to be a bad kisser.

But kissing was more important as a bonding mechanism to women.

In long-term relationships females not only rate kissing as more important than

men, but they indicated that kissing was important throughout a relationship.

Meanwhile, men placed less importance on kissing as the relationship

progresses.

There was also a difference in the sort of kisses the two sexes preferred, with

men liking wet, tongue kisses.

Lead researcher Dr Gordon Gallup said kissing had developed over time to become

an essential part of the courtship process.

But he added: "While both sexes participate in the adaptive benefits of

kissing, we found sex differences when considering the pursuit of short-versus

long-term mating strategies."