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You probably don't want back the relationship you actually had. What you mourn for is the relationship you thought you could've had if things had been different. But that relationship didn't exist.
She couldn't imagine me not in her life, but she had very clearly imagined herself not in mine.
We broke up for a reason.
Just because a relationship ends it doesn't mean it's a failure.
Relationships are risky because no matter how good you are, they could lose feelings for you just like that.
Date someone mature enough to say "let's fix this" instead of just acting childish and ignoring you.
It's okay, I didn't know how to love you right either. The only difference is that while you gave up, I never wanted to stop trying to learn how.
Every time I think about you, I have to remind myself that if you wanted to talk to me, you would.
People get tired of me and leave. They don't know that I'm tired too, but I always choose to stay.
One of the hardest things you will ever have to do, is to grieve the loss of a person who is still alive.
Talking to someone every single day for hours can be pretty destructive because there will come a day where you don't speak at all, and it's going to be the loneliest feeling in the world.
Sometimes the only reason why you won't let go of what's making you sad is because it was the only thing that made you happy.
Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction. (Saint-Exupéry)