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Why So Many of Us Experience a Midlife Crisis

2015-04-21 08:53:11

Hannes Schwandt

April 20, 2015

A mid-career crisis can happen to anyone. It can hit even those who objectively

have the most fulfilling jobs. When it does, it inflicts pain on the individual

suffering it and causes productivity losses for employers. Yet, the phenomenon

remains stigmatized and under-researched, leaving crucial questions unanswered.

What are the causes? Why does this malaise seem to strike in mid-life? And how

can those who are stuck in its grips shake themselves loose?

An emerging literature in economics has started to investigate what s happening

during midlife, providing insights that might help people and firms to better

handle these painful and costly episodes. Analyzing a nation-wide survey from

the UK, a group of economists working with professor Andrew Oswald of The

University of Warwick found that the job satisfaction of the average employee

deteriorates dramatically in midlife. Mid-career crises are, in fact, a

widespread regularity, rather than the misfortune of a few individuals. But

here s the good news: In the second half of people s working lives, job

satisfaction increases again, in many cases reaching even higher levels than

earlier in the career essentially forming a U-shaped curve.

Subsequent research discovered that this age-related U-shape in job

satisfaction is part of a much broader phenomenon. A similar midlife nadir is

detectable in measures of people s overall life satisfaction and has been found

in more than 50 countries. On average, life satisfaction is high when people

are young, then starts to decline in the early 30s, bottoming out between the

mid-40s and mid-50s before increasing again to levels as high as during young

adulthood. And this U-curve occurs across the entire socio-economic spectrum,

hitting senior-level executives as well as blue-collar workers and stay-at-home

parents. It affects childless couples as well as single people or parents of

four. In short, a mid-career crisis does not discriminate.

So what s driving the midlife nadir in job and life satisfaction if it s

independent of people s life circumstances? And if it s such a widespread

phenomenon, why does it seem to catch us by surprise? To answer these

questions, I analyzed a unique longitudinal German survey that followed 23,000

individuals from 1991 to 2004, where people reported their current life

satisfaction as well as their expected satisfaction in five years time. Since

the same individuals are interviewed each year, it s possible to see if people

accurately predicted their future life satisfaction.

Young people, it turns out, are overly optimistic, expecting significant

increases in life satisfaction, rather than anticipating the slide down the

U-curve. Young adults typically believe that they ll beat the average that

they ll be the lucky ones who end up with a top job, a happy marriage, and

healthy children. Neuroscientists believe that overoptimism is based on biased

information processing in the brain, which makes it difficult to correct overly

rosy expectations in the young (this bias might actually be evolutionary

efficient, as a powerful driver for seeking progress).

As we age, things often don t turn out as nicely as we planned. We may not

climb up the career ladder as quickly as we wished. Or we do, only to find that

prestige and a high income are not as satisfying as we expected them to be. At

the same time, high expectations about the future adjust downwards. Midlife

essentially becomes a time of double misery, made up of disappointments and

evaporating aspirations. Paradoxically, those who objectively have the least

reason to complain (e.g. if they have a desirable job) often suffer most. They

feel ungrateful and disappointed with themselves particularly because their

discontent seems so unjustified which creates a potentially vicious circle.

The Atlantic s contributing editor Jonathan Rauch described several such cases

(including his own) in his cover story on mid-life crisis, for which he

interviewed me about my research.

It s at the bottom of the U-curve (the mid-50s, according to the German data)

when expected life satisfaction aligns with current satisfaction levels. People

come to terms with how their life is playing out. At the same time, the aging

brain learns to feel less regret about missed chances, as brain studies have

shown. This combination of accepting life and feeling less regret about the

past is what makes life satisfaction increase again. And since people over 50

tend to underestimate their future satisfaction, these increases come as an

unexpected pleasant surprise, which further raises satisfaction levels.

As a whole, these findings tell a story in which the age U-shape in job (and

overall life) satisfaction is driven by unmet aspirations that are painfully

felt in midlife, but beneficially abandoned and felt with less regret during

old age. Importantly, in the German study, I found this pattern regardless of

people s socio-economic status, their gender, or whether they lived in East or

West Germany, despite the cultural differences in the decade right after

unification. Periods of mid-career crisis seem to be part of a natural

developmental process, driven by biology rather than the specifics of a

particular job. Hence, drastic career changes are unlikely to make you better

off. If the burned out Wall Street lawyer and the dissatisfied NGO activist

were to change seats, perhaps neither would end up more content.

The data seems to suggest that if you re in the throes of a mid-career crisis,

maybe you should just wait it out until the U-curve s upward slope is reached.

But there is more we can do in the face of mid-career malaise:

At the individual level, acknowledging mid-career dissatisfaction as a normal

and temporary stage in your work life provides a light at the end of the tunnel

when you feel like there s no hope. Moreover, hearing that it s OK to feel

regret from unmet aspirations helps you break the vicious circle of

disappointment about feeling discontent.

At the firm level, HR could create mid-career mentoring programs. Mentoring is

usually directed at early career stages and continues only informally through

the rest of the career. My findings suggest that those in a mid-career low can

learn from their older colleagues who already went through the valley and have

emerged feeling less regret, having adapted to life s circumstances. A

corporate culture that openly addresses mid-career discontent could support

employees in this reorientation process, helping them explore new opportunities

within the firm.

While a mid-career crisis can be a painful time in life, it can also be an

opportunity to reflect and to reevaluate personal strengths and weaknesses.

Whether you choose to wait out the discontent, or make a drastic change in the

hopes of a brighter tomorrow, rest assured that this too shall pass. Take heart

if you find yourself in the depths of this U-shaped curve, because things can

only look up from here.

Hannes Schwandt is currently a postdoctoral research associate at Princeton

University s Center for Health and Wellbeing after completing his PhD in

Economics at Universitat Pompeu Fabra in Barcelona and the London School of

Economics. He will join the University of Zurich as assistant professor of

Economics in August 2015.