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'It was just normal to me'

2009-07-21 05:27:50

A BBC Investigation has discovered that 100 young people under the age of 18

are charged with rape, on average, each year in Scotland. Social Affairs

reporter Fiona Walker talks to a man who was convicted of attempted rape at the

age of 11.

Paul, as we will call him to protect both him and his victim, has decided to

break his silence. He is a young man living in a small town in Scotland and he

is a registered sex offender.

He has four convictions, including two attempted rapes committed when he was 11

and 14. At first, he says, he saw it as childhood games.

"I didn't see it as committing a sexual offence, I seen it as a normal act," he

said. "I'd witnessed it all my life, it was just normal to me, didn't think

there was anything wrong with it playing doctors and nurses, that's how I

described it when I was younger."

By the time he was 15 and waiting to be sentenced, he realised it was far more

serious than that. His victim was a younger girl; her experiences will stay

with her for life.

Could anything have stopped him from abusing his victim?

There wasn't anything about sex I didn't know or hadn't seen

Paul

"Yeah. When I was eleven, when I first started displaying all... that behaviour

when I was younger, if someone had actually asked me what was wrong instead of

just assuming that I was just acting up because of my age... if somebody had

actually looked at it in more depth then there should have been plenty done to

help," he said.

Eventually, when it was already too late for his victim, he was sent to a

specialist unit to tackle sexually aggressive behaviour.

"No help was offered, no help was given, nothing was tried. It was just another

place for me to stay. That's all it was... I was willing to do the work.

Constantly moaning about the fact that I wasn't doing it. "

Paul was sentenced to four years. Like many young people who become sexually

aggressive, he had been sexually abused himself.

"I was sexually assaulted as a child. When I was about four was the first time

and then sexually abused again around about 11 I've witnessed full penetrative

sex before I was 11.

"Multiple partners, various partners, tried, well people tried to get me

involved in various sexual acts when I was 11 so - there wasn't anything about

sex I didn't know or hadn't seen. "

Paul believes treatment needs to be offered early. The authorities need to

persevere with young people even when they do not think they need help. He

believes that is how you reduce the number of victims.

"The public need to understand that this does happen," he said. "It is out

there. There is people that are abused, there is people that do abuse and we

need to help the ones, we need to help both, not just the victims.

"We need to help the perpetrators as well because if we don't they're just

going to continue, continue with their behaviour. It's not going to change. "

Paul went to Polmont Young Offenders Institution, near Falkirk, where he

completed the Stop programme, that prepares sex offenders for their release.

But he believes the most valuable treatment was individual counselling provided

by a charity for survivors of sexual abuse.

He is now a father and hopes to go to college.