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Parenting, Co-parenting & Homeschooling
I'm a dad to two boys, 9 & 8. I'm the step-dad to two, an 8 year old boy and 10 year old girl. It's extremely hard and extremely rewarding. A person can live an extremely good life and not be a parent, but not me.
Having a different home to my boys' mother allows for more flexibility in my style of parenting, but more scope for friction with her's. Being a step-parent means I'm a very closely watched role model for them, without being their father, and that presents its own benefits and challenges.
This makes everything harder, but for us it's the right fit for now. The state government has a curiculum council in its education department, which gives quite clear ideas about which skills should be focused on and attained at about which year. It's not prescriptive, but as a rule, most schools follow it, and I do too. Well, I follow it less strictly than the local state school, but waaaaaay more closely than the local Steiner school does. This is probably the area I'll write the most gemlogs on.
My boys are enrolled in the local school, due to start at the beginning of 2023, something we're all excited about.
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