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Title: Alice in Monsterland Author: Gilles Dauvé Date: May 2001 Language: en Topics: children, communist, sexuality Source: http://troploin0.free.fr/biblio/alice/
Alice is in trouble.[1]
6,000 people on this planet are determined to abduct, rape, torture and
kill her.
6,000,000 are attracted to her in a way that might lead to some minimal
physical contact, which very rarely results in her getting hurt or
forced into anything. Actually, quite a few of these 6,000,000, like
deacon Charles Dodgson, are happy just to take pictures of Alice or look
at them.
6,000,000,000 earthlings are most unlikely to fall into the first
category, but may very well partake of the second, often for a very
short while, maybe once in their life, or possibly only in their mind.
6 billion of us are increasingly regarded by psychologists, cops, judges
and reporters as if they could turn into those 6 millions, while these 6
millions are currently treated as if they acted like the 6 thousand. In
the year 2001, Socrates would be witchhunted as a child molester, and
Oxford University would sack Lewis Carroll as a child pornographer.
Paedophilia; paraphilia in which children are the preferred sexual
object.
Paraphilia; a preference for unusual sexual practices.
(Webster’s dictionary, 1993)
After Freud, it is hard to believe that there is such a thing as a clear
cut easily defined “sexual object”.
It would be absurd to include Don Juan and Juliet’s Romeo in the same
category of “lovers”. Whoever enjoys torturing cats is zoophobic, not
zoophilic. A man like Dutroux in Belgium was raping and killing teenage
girls and women. A man like Andre Gide would make love to young boys.
Why amalgamate two utterly different types of behaviour in the same
notion of “paedophilia”? Only Law and Order politicians call “drug
addicts” both the hash smoker and the person who needs his fix twice a
day. “Paedophilia” is just as intellectually relevant as “drug use”.
We’re all paraphiliac.
Kids are indeed mistreated in this world, in more ways than one. Some
are marked for life by a forced sexual encounter in their youth. Lots
are scarred by their family (in whose protective-repressive womb most
unwanted sex occurs).
Our world deals with sexual horror as with all others. It perpetuates
those conditions that breed it, puts it into words and behind walls,
acts as if we were safe, and moralizes us while waiting for it to
re-emerge.
Nobody denies the existence of child sexuality any more: Freud can’t be
as easily suppressed as Reich. But this sexuality is turned into a
fortress no one has access to. Can we imagine, as in Brave New World, a
father, a mother, a teacher or a social worker discreetly closing the
door behind which two boys, or two girls, or a boy and a girl both aged
12, would be engaged in some sex play? The Sun reader would smack the
kids, the Guardian reader would gently lecture them, and the young ones
would probably pay a visit to the psychologist’s office. Children’s
right to their own sex life means prohibition. Adults legally reserve
themselves one single right over sexuality between children: to ban it
altogether. Better forbid a sex act than risk sex abuse, that’s the
logic.
The same logic would justify a strict regulation of adult sex
relationships, which can involve violence. Let’s see for a moment adult
sex as child-adult sex is usually perceived, i.e. only in its villainous
and bloody aspects. Then any male should regard himself as a potential
Jack The Ripper, and any wife should fear to be penetrated against her
will by her husband every night.
This civilization is incapable of addressing child-adult relationships.
“What we call a child today, is our regret for the loss of an immediate
relation with the world, of a connection between the intimate and the
exterior: when Otherness, be it a human being, a rotten leaf, a river
going through a copse or a dead owl in the attic, appeared in such
plenitude that it formed part of us and enveloped us. Childhood is our
sorrow for having had to undo all this, and is also the means to take
revenge: I love the child because he is my childhood, and hate him
because he points to my vanished childhood.”[2]
We are neither born guilty nor innocent. There is no happy benevolent
nature that would spontaneously choose altruism against selfishness, and
cooperation against aggression. It is an illusion to suppose that human
creatures are born good, then only perverted under the pressure of
authority, class and State, until their underlying basic goodness is set
free from the chains of repression. This vision merely takes as its
starting point the original sin creed (whereby man is always inclined to
ignore or enslave his neighbour, and only acts socially through the
Law), and turns it upside down. Although the “optimistic” outlook is
more palatable than its “pessimistic” counterpart, a human perspective
has to supersede this symmetrical opposition.
Crime and violence cannot all be explained by the material and mental
shackles of class. The freest society will never do away with the
possibility of “anti-social” behaviour. But a Gemeinwesen, a
being-together might reduce it to a minimum (whereas exploitation
societies multiply it), and be able to live with it, to re-absorb most
of it (whereas exploitation societies sweep it under the carpet).
Communism might witness crimes, probably not the concept of the
“criminal”.
The question: What would become of child-adult relation in “communism”?,
can only be answered by questioning the question. Marx opposed ideal
Utopian plans (which often contained illuminating insights) with the
critique of the existing social and mental order: critique of philosophy
and Law, critique of the Jewish question, critique of economy...
Any present solution to the problem is wrong, because it is based on
“child” and “adult” as they are currently defined. All we know is that a
child is not a miniature adult. An insurmountable difference separates
and binds them. The problem arises precisely because this distance
gradually disappears as the child grows up, as it does not, for
instance, between humans and animals.
What is to be done? Kids don’t live on another planet. There is a child
sexuality, and even mutual seduction between child and adult, but
everything is not possible at every age. I talk to a baby who is still
unable to reply in words: I don’t read him The Society of the Spectacle.
As regards sex as well as other matters, “public debate” means nothing
but us being presented with pressing issues waiting for their solutions:
mad cows, work harassment, global warming, paedophilia, speculation,
etc. Each of them contains an element of factual truth, set in such a
way as to lead to a variety of answers all within the scope of what
present society can understand and admit. The State usually proposes
central control, and the left even more of it, albeit in democratic
forms.
People like the writers of this text are regarded by reformers as
impractical out-of-the-worldists. Yet everyone has to be judged
according to his own values: let’s ask the realists about their own
achievement. If we listen to a whole army of criminologists,
sociologists and social workers, in spite of their dedicated efforts
over several decades, what is known as paedophilia is reported to be on
the increase. Couldn’t it be that this society reinforces the evils it
pretends to cure, and instead of solving them shifts them from one place
to another? It regulates capital by developing State power and
oligopoles that eventually lead to deeper crises. It gets rid of crime
by putting more and more people in jails that breed criminals. It
decreases pollution by new technologies that portend alternative
disasters.
Let those who have a vested interest in the continuation of this world
take part in such debates. We have no solution to what present society
describes as its most pressing emergencies.
The paedophilia issue is as much a product of this world as any other.
Childhood as we know it is a creation of modern times. Most traditional
societies, for better or worse, thought of kids as young adults.
Industrialization separated work from non-work, productive time from
other social acts, and created a much more rigid division between the
non-worker and the worker, leading to a growing differentiation between
child and adult. (This was also the time when “retirement” came into
existence.) Early industrialists used child labour inasmuch as they made
profit out of cheap unskilled labour in general, women and children
particularly. When kids ceased to be exploitable (partly under workers’
pressure), society “discovered” childhood as a totally distinct moment
in life, one that has to be socialized and systematically taught
(whereas before only a minority got some schooling). Over a century
later, consumer society “discovered” teenagehood as a specific phase
requiring special attention, and of course mobilizing its own experts.
Classical revolutionary theory defines the proletarian as having no
reserves and only possessing his offspring, his lineage (proles). If
this is true, then one must view our age as that of mass
proletarianization. Our contemporaries behave as if their kid was their
prime concern, but in practice buy him a lot and ban the essential. He
has a life of pocket money + compulsory schooling + no open sex. Isn’t
that close to treating him as if they own him? Unfortunately for the
family balance, such a possession is proving more and more volatile. The
set roles of the traditional family belong to the past. The age old
patriarchal hierarchy is being gradually replaced by a direct submission
of everyone, young or old, male or female, to capitalist logic.
Families are no longer meant to be an object of love (or hate, as Andre
Gide asserted over a century ago), but are more simply lived with and,
as a bestseller says, survived. Thanks to capital’s “practical critique”
of the family, women have been liberated from the role of housewife and
become wage-earners. It’s quite common for mother and father to be
separated. The nuclear unit is on the wane, replaced by looser forms,
such as the single mother living on welfare. Kids are now likely to be
in creches or cared for by child minders.
This increased fragmentation has gradually turned experiments like the
60’s and 70’s communes into alternative lifestyles.
It also makes the child more isolated, fragile or volatile, often
unmanageable: hence a new “social problem”. Whether politicians talk of
controlling violent youth gangs or protecting innocent children, the
obsession is the same. A society that does not know how to relate to its
kids shows it no longer believes in its own reproduction.
Children are only made sacred nowadays because too much is at stake
there, especially in a world that is desecrating everything.
Intellectuals are fond of Marx’s phrase on “the icy water of egotistical
calculation” that drowns “the most heavenly ecstasies of religious
fervour, of chivalrous enthusiasm, of Philistine sentimentalism”. They
love it because they think it only applies to what they don’t believe in
any more, because capitalism has already gone beyond it: the glory of
dying on the battlefield for King and Country, the virtues of
colonialism, or the Biblical father image. They fail to realize that the
very same process applies to those most heavenly modern ecstasies,
parental love for instance.
“The bourgeois claptrap about the family and education, about the
hallowed correlation of parents and child, becomes all the more
disgusting, as through modern industry, all the family ties among the
proletarians are torn asunder, and their children transformed into mere
articles of commerce and instruments of labour.
But you Communists would introduce community of women, screams the
bourgeoisie in chorus.
The bourgeois sees his wife as a mere instrument of production. He hears
that instruments of production are to be exploited in common, and,
naturally, can come to no other conclusion than the lot of being common
to all will likewise fall to the women.
He has not even a suspicion that the real point aimed at is to do away
with the status of women as mere instruments of production.” (Communist
Manifesto)
153 years later, that situation has not ended: it’s been extended to
everyone. Aren’t we all, man, woman, child, “instruments of production”?
Most Western women are wage-earners. A 12 year old no longer walks into
the spinning mill, but into a school that’s more and more defined as a
place to get a training to get a job. Sexual exploitation of kids is
only the most visible and obnoxious form of their transformation into
“mere articles of commerce”.[3]
Well-wishers want to give the child the same rights as the adult (plus a
few more): they draw the logical conclusion from the fact that
children’s situation reflects our general conditions of life — except
it’s worse for children.
As long as money rules, human beings will be bought and sold, there’s no
reason kids should escape this if they’re marketable, and a whole host
of remedies will only regulate the traffic: commodity with a human face.
Law never goes against the foundations of society. Some Greek
philosophers refuted the existence of the gods; hardly any opposed
slavery.
This society holds as a principle that sexual consent on the part of a
child is not valid, because he can’t know what he really wants and
needs. But his needs and wants are considered valid when they concern
his right to buy and enjoy. In the very same way as the customer is said
to be always right, so the child is supposed to be. The child exists as
a separate category which is a sad caricature of the adult. A boy or
girl of 5 is increasingly treated like the rest of us capitalized human
beings: he or she is a consumer, and is given rights, which are of
course imposed as much as guaranteed.
One of the worst things that can be done to a human being is to treat
him as if he existed only in order to be protected. Worse still, if his
acts are banned in the name of his own freedom.
A child’s rights are absolute as he is held irresponsible of anything.
When society, i.e. the State grants him its complete protection, it
deprives him of any autonomy. He’s given every right, except the right
to know what he wants, in other words the right that would give some
content to all the other rights.
There’s no better definition of that modern invention, childhood. A
child stops being a child as he enters the age when he can be sent to
prison.
Alice is in trouble, deep trouble.
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[1] This is an abridged and modified version of Autre Temps, written in
French by J.-P. Carasso, G.Dauve, D.Martineau, K.Nesic, published by
troploin, May 2001. See also
(For a World Without Moral Order).
[2] C.Gallaz, L’lnfini, n.59, 1997.
[3] While Western good conscience denounces the exploitation of child
labour in poor countries, US (and soon European and Japanese) primary
school kids are taught how to buy, sell, get rich (in Monopoly money),
compare their profits, etc. Certainly it’s more pleasant for a 7 year
old boy or girl to learn to be a boss in Denver, than spend 60 hours a
week in a Peshawar sweatshop. The problem is, one implies the other. The
moral critique will never realize the world is one.