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My approach to things like this changed. I just don't care for shit like that.
When it's hot, I like to run around barefoot. Even when shopping, etc.
And I make it look good. Fitting clothing style. Clean. And self-confident.
Now I get more girls talking to me *because* of it.
I think the trick is, to have a stronger reality. Of what is right and cool.
If you manage to drag others in your reality, you can do what you like.
So partially, it's people themselves, running around in fear, acting kinda
ashamed, that makes other people think it's normal to treat them like this.
Same thing with learned wrong assumptions about yourself. Like people thinking
they are stupid, therefore giving up earlier, and not even trying to achieve
some goals.
I found it very healthy, to re-check all your most basic assumptions at most
every 10 years. You will be surprised which one have absolutely no scientific
base, but were very very deeply connected to every thought of yours.