When G came out to me [1], the only question that really came to mind was “What is your name going to be?” Everything else just seemed rude, crude and socially unacceptable. And that's pretty much what Calpernia Addams [2] says in her video, “Bad Questions to Ask a Transsexual: The Director's Cut [3] (link via Katelynn [4], who will be on the TV (television) in a few hours).
[3] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DjqsB1huDxg