MARRIAGE

https://www.reddit.com/r/tanzania/comments/1iglcxu/marriage/

created by uncle7ap on 03/02/2025 at 09:32 UTC

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In 2025, which one between marriage or financial freedom keeps you up at night?

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Comment by Outside-Campaign-802 at 03/02/2025 at 09:57 UTC

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Both button 😃😃

Comment by Specific_Library_890 at 03/02/2025 at 10:41 UTC

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Financial freedom. I’ve done Marriage, I wish someone had told me that I shouldn’t have pressed the pause button on my career because of it and concentrated on my financial freedom. So money, money keeps me up at night 😂

Comment by uncle7ap at 03/02/2025 at 10:06 UTC

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Especially when you’re between 27 and 35

Comment by Advanced-Brief-2662 at 03/02/2025 at 11:19 UTC

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Y'all 27 to 30. 😂 Crying about marriage and finances try being 22 in 2025...ur a uni student tryna make money so u can live that life. Nothing is stressing that being young tryna make a life outta urself esp in Dar. don't even remind me of the dating pool 🙂

Comment by Ok_Research_711 at 03/02/2025 at 17:00 UTC

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None. Why do you assume it has to keep you up? You can be free from that mind

Comment by Shoddy_Vanilla643 at 03/02/2025 at 17:06 UTC

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There's no such thing as financial freedom. The reason is the more you accumulate money, the more your appetite for it will increase. So, if your goal is to achieve financial freedom, I guarantee, you will be up at night until you die.

Furthermore, try to live your life and make sure that you have a foundation for a healthily relationship. If marriage comes along, go with it. It might be what you need to unlock your potential.

Comment by Dapper-Goat-2230 at 03/02/2025 at 13:39 UTC

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I'm 28F. I can't wait to find my person but I've made peace with the fact that it'll come when the time is right. So as of now the focus is on my finances!

Comment by junior_36_0 at 03/02/2025 at 15:33 UTC

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That financial freedom is where it at everything else is a plus

Comment by Gullible-Bluebird-23 at 03/02/2025 at 15:53 UTC

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Money

Comment by Theunis_ at 03/02/2025 at 16:00 UTC

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Marriage is overrated

Comment by Gullible-Bluebird-23 at 03/02/2025 at 16:01 UTC

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Many women are in wrong houses because of money and many men are with wrong women because of beauty. Now men want women with money so when they are told “i love you” they know its from the heart and not the stomach, While women want a provider (oldvalues)

Comment by heyman_designs at 03/02/2025 at 17:12 UTC

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🥺🥺 omoh! Financial freedom

Comment by crazybanane at 03/02/2025 at 13:51 UTC

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At this point in my life, MONEY, L'ARGENT, CHAPAA, PESA, HELA. Like take my kidneys, intestines, toes whatever. But give me that money. Marraige? Love? AIN'T NOBODY GOT TIME FOR DAT!!! But finding someone to be with, to share this "life" with won't be so bad, but the truth is most people and especially women are concerned with financial security. Thus i think people should pursue financial stability. Wahenga wamenena ya kwamba, ukiwa nazo warembo watakuja wenyewe.