https://www.reddit.com/r/maldives/comments/1j71ol4/the_haircut_regulations_in_school_were_abusive/
created by Organic_Anxiety194 on 09/03/2025 at 06:36 UTC*
51 upvotes, 12 top-level comments (showing 12)
had the worst experience growing up specially as a boy and I know it wasn't just me. Every month doing the Brazilian Ronaldo cut to school and plus considering I was fat in school... Worst combo ever. I remember actually crying after each haircut, and sometimes they would even make me cut the little patch of hair in the front as well because school doesn't allow "uneven" Haircuts. I was forced to be bald and it severely Compromised my confidence, communication and body image perception because haircuts literally shapes your entire look as a child.
Aesthetic conformity over individuality should never happen in a country that claims to be free.
Comment by GraveReaper2 at 09/03/2025 at 06:46 UTC
19 upvotes, 1 direct replies
Brazilian Ronaldo Cut
Perfect description of that lame ass haircut we all had to get
Comment by Commercial_Business1 at 09/03/2025 at 08:03 UTC
11 upvotes, 0 direct replies
I was once sent to the vice principal office caz my hair wasn't exactly 1 inch and was sent home. Next day I came to school without doing anything to my hair and they were like now I got my hiarcut done well.
Comment by Present_Target_7550 at 09/03/2025 at 08:19 UTC
11 upvotes, 1 direct replies
Idk wtf kind of schools yall are going but even i studied at a public school, the hair just wasn’t allowed to be long, there was no other restrictions the type of hairstyle as long as it short and well kept
Comment by JazzlikePromotion618 at 09/03/2025 at 08:46 UTC
4 upvotes, 0 direct replies
I would've been sent home for having a beard in CHSE if a classmate (who did get caught) hadn't warned me ahead of time. Apparently, keeping to a sunnah is less important than some arbitrary bullshit rule that shouldn't exist. It wasn't even much of a beard, barely a stubble and a moustache. Glad we got that rule changed (or have they brought it back?).
Comment by MaldivianKatheeb at 09/03/2025 at 06:45 UTC
2 upvotes, 2 direct replies
Is this a new thing? cause no school ever forced me to get a haircut. and i remember having long hair in school too.
Comment by tadashisbitch at 09/03/2025 at 07:42 UTC
2 upvotes, 2 direct replies
i thought boys could keep to 1 inch length, it was not this bad from what i have seen
Comment by Educational-Tower-48 at 09/03/2025 at 06:59 UTC
1 upvotes, 1 direct replies
sorry for your experience
things weren’t that bad where i went. we had students whos hair reached all the way to their nose. some even curly and over the ears. ofc theh all keep it styled to avoid attention. i didn’t even have anyone complaining about my beard. i only cut it when i started looking homeless.
in high school things got worse tho. mfs had a trimmer and sent us to groom our beards right in school (sent home if u unlucky) 😭
one time the education minister was about to visit and prior to that there was a class full of dudes with long beards getting it trimmed. a literal barber shop in school. by the time my turn came it had no charge 💀
Comment by zaanisanaawsome at 09/03/2025 at 10:50 UTC
1 upvotes, 0 direct replies
The school cut is ass
Comment by WelderAlternative446 at 10/03/2025 at 01:23 UTC
1 upvotes, 0 direct replies
North Korea allows 3 types of hair styles
Comment by snuggly_cobra at 09/03/2025 at 20:04 UTC
1 upvotes, 1 direct replies
Do you think it’s any different in other countries?
Conformity. Obedience. Loyalty.
Name a free country that doesn’t try to instill these values on its young.
Comment by QuickSilver010 at 09/03/2025 at 10:44 UTC
-2 upvotes, 1 direct replies
Yall are overreacting. Either that or the school you were in was too strict
Comment by Bigfoot-Mv at 09/03/2025 at 07:24 UTC
-4 upvotes, 5 direct replies
Already from a young age I discovered my sexual feelings because I am aroused by something ordinary, namely cutting hair. When I saw other people getting their hair cut or fantasizing about it. As a child I never experienced sexual arousel when I got a haircut myself, but I do experienced by reading about it or watching it. This is also the reason I discovered masturbation accidently at a young age.
After puberty it became worse because my sexual feelings intensified, so that I could not help to feel aroused when I walked in the street and saw people getting their hair cut in a hair salon. I became a problem after my conversion when I wanted to stop masturbation. Even worse I started to experience sexual arousel when I got a haircut myself.
Lately I had a hair appointment and the stylist happened to be very attractive, and had a erection while sitting in the chair. The next time I experienced the same when was waiting before my appointment. Even when I masturbated both times on beforehand. I feel bad because I want to limiting masturbation and don't want to sexualize women.
How do I stop such ordinary things like getting a haircut to cause arousel