Comment by gestural on 01/04/2019 at 18:03 UTC

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i’m afraid of intimacy

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Comment by youngluck at 01/04/2019 at 18:21 UTC

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You're not alone. It's intense and not all of us were designed to accept that kind of energy all at once. And that's OK.

Comment by Dubstepater at 01/04/2019 at 18:07 UTC

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Shhhhh... it'll be okay... *nuzzles* OWO Whats this?!?!

lmao i hate myself

Comment by thedarklordTimmi at 02/04/2019 at 00:59 UTC

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Honestly thought i was the only one with this problem. It fucking sucks and i have no answer but don't think you're the only one with this problem.

Comment by timeandotherfeelings at 02/04/2019 at 16:45 UTC

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I think that finding what makes you scared of intimacy? is it certain parts? is it the whole shebang? Then work on those issues with yourself or something like a toy or plushie, and then move onto something more serious but make sure to take it one step at a time, and try to find someone you can confide in eventually that you trust to some degree. I'm no expert though but this is the way I lowered my fear at certain points when intimacy seemed like a bad option, though I still have my fears.