created by Islanderwithwings on 08/03/2025 at 23:04 UTC
715 upvotes, 21 top-level comments (showing 21)
https://youtu.be/hNcNJMu-ik8?feature=shared
So the video is from China Unvarnished, it's about 9 mins long. Pls guys, I know this is from China but we have to learn how to separate the message from the messenger.
The man in the video is a Chinese Billionaire, however he pretended to be an average man at first. Pay attention to the SIGN language, Shame, Insult, Guilt, and the Need to be right.
The women kicked themselves when he revealed that he was a Billionaire.
You know about the 80/20 rule? 80% of women are throwing themselves at the top 20% of men? And how 80% of men are invisible to women? Yeah, it's becoming a global pandemic.
Comment by MosheBenIssac at 09/03/2025 at 03:43 UTC
313 upvotes, 0 direct replies
There was this joke going around in Shanghai years ago, A brain surgeon discovered something when looking inside the brain of Shanghai women. He discover dollar signs all over the brain. It sounded funnier in Chinese.
Comment by ZealousidealFly4848 at 09/03/2025 at 01:16 UTC
360 upvotes, 1 direct replies
Chinese women have always been materialistic. Sad reality
Comment by gittenlucky at 09/03/2025 at 01:24 UTC
72 upvotes, 1 direct replies
$790M USD
Comment by gmnotyet at 09/03/2025 at 01:54 UTC*
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| 5,700,000,000 Chinese Yuan equals 787,918,410.00 United States Dollar
Wow.
5.7 billion yuan = $788 million dollars.
Almost a billionaire in US dollars.
Comment by corporate_robot_dude at 09/03/2025 at 05:07 UTC*
160 upvotes, 1 direct replies
I'm Chinese and unfortunately this video isn't even exaggerating the behavior of many modern Chinese women. I'm no where near this guy's wealth, but I am a low key millionaire in my 30's. It's actually quite difficult finding someone genuine, and all my male friends share similar experiences with dating asian women. All these passport bros thinking going to an asian country to find a wife are out of their minds. Asian women are extremely intelligent when it comes to manipulating men. It's a social status competition amongst them to find the richest man. Often times their families are in on it too and will guilt trip your wallet dry. Western guys only have the novelty factor going for them, asian women know these sort of men are usually the brokeass losers of their countries. They still would rather opt for a successful CEO (from either the west or east), but they may drain a passport bro's wallet in the meantime.
The more attractive they are the crazier. But what's funny is even the 2's and 3's are intolerable these days too. I have a friend who is truly a man with a kind heart, willing to go for this 3 because at first she had a good personality. Quite literally the face only a mother could love. But as he got to know her, even she turned out to have dellusional expectations. As a simp, even he could not put up with it.
OH and lastly, the dellusion for how good looking they actually look (and therefore expect to be treated) is a problem too. On the internet you'll see SO many attractive asian girls on social media. But asians are the masters of using filters and makeup in real life. Sometimes they forget how average they really are.
No one wants to be alone, but in this day and age, opting out seems to be the only sane path.
Comment by tiredfromlife2019 at 09/03/2025 at 07:06 UTC
59 upvotes, 1 direct replies
The 80/20 rule is not a virus. It's hypergamy. It has always existed just that it was constrained by society and technology not allowing women the ability to see everything in the world.
So as women advance in the world, the more hypergamy is released from restraints.
Comment by NoAntelope2026 at 08/03/2025 at 23:39 UTC
85 upvotes, 1 direct replies
It was ever thus. They're just more open about it now.
Comment by aigars2 at 09/03/2025 at 11:39 UTC
11 upvotes, 0 direct replies
This proves all love related TV shows are nonsense. That's why you never see those people together after the show.
Comment by FH-7497 at 09/03/2025 at 16:52 UTC
8 upvotes, 0 direct replies
It’s called hypergamy and it’s the byproduct of female biology. Women don’t like to admit that the rules society made for them was because it was necessary for cultural survival (same is true for men)
Comment by Happy_Secret_1299 at 09/03/2025 at 12:58 UTC
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So not for nothing. The 80/20 rule always existed for female attraction. Society controlled it via marriage in the past.
It’s like the same thing when you see a girl who is a 3 on the looks scale. Most men wouldn’t want to be seen with her. But with family planning and marriage society controlled for this.
All bets are off however in post feminist society and you can see the differences when we don’t control genders for their natural instincts.
Fact is men know when they’re in the top 20 percentile because they actually get female attention. Which makes them less inclined to settle down with just one woman. Which drives to some extent the problems we see today.
But really, 80 percent of men were always invisible to women. That’s just how attraction works. Since the dawn of time.
Welcome to reality my brother.
Comment by Prestigious-Hippo950 at 09/03/2025 at 15:52 UTC
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You've really made me sad today watching this. About 6 yrs ago I was at a family dinner or birthday. One of the husbands was talking to my Uncle and then turned to me and said "So (my name) can FINALLY get a real job" in a mocking tone. a couple people at the table laughed. Of course I had a "real job,", it just wasn't seen as a real job in his eyes. I can't believe I let that slide without checking his ass but I didn't want to make a bigger dinner scene that was already made out of it during my grandmothers birthday.
Comment by Razaberry at 09/03/2025 at 21:06 UTC
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None of the women’s or crowds reactions are shown in the video
Comment by Black-Patrick at 09/03/2025 at 12:55 UTC
4 upvotes, 0 direct replies
Hahaha, harpies.
Comment by toblotron at 09/03/2025 at 09:01 UTC
18 upvotes, 2 direct replies
In a way i can understand most of the reactions of the female contestants. If the translation was correct, he basically asked for a girlfriend who could support him and his parents, while he seemingly had no realistic prospects for financial improvement in the future
I don't think life on China is likely to be any dance on roses - who would want to start a relationship with someone who seems so likely to lead them into a future of financial hardship?
In my own, relatively care-free country, I would not expect his situation to be That much cause for concern, as there are social safety-nets, though I think even here his started situation would not exactly attract any women
Comment by Eden_Company at 09/03/2025 at 05:07 UTC
5 upvotes, 0 direct replies
The funny part is I've met some billionaires through this process XD. If you're nice to everyone and treat everyone well you're bound to find nice people. Keeping them is another headache but having them be friends is another thing too.
Comment by Individual_Hold_4661 at 09/03/2025 at 01:52 UTC
10 upvotes, 2 direct replies
I'm a straight man and I don't see the point. Naive, idealistic dreamers have always had an air of 'repugnancy' around them, regardless of their sex. It's (typically) an indication of psychological immaturity. When he revealed himself to be a billionaire, of course he becomes attractive again. Money is sexy, wealth is an indicator that something is 'right' / 'life-giving'.
Comment by Golden-Grate-242 at 10/03/2025 at 06:47 UTC
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I think asian men have it particularly hard. I say this as a tall white guy with a good asian single guy friend. He said on apps he just gets ignored or even bitchy comments. I believe that there is some element of natural selection at play due to the shorter stature and there being a desire for height programmed in for reproduction. I think there may be some remnant of "white is better" as well among asian women? I think there is **generally** a size issue, height and downstairs, as well as general stature?
Comment by Mechanik_J at 10/03/2025 at 10:31 UTC
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I mean, Mythbusters did this too. Showing hypergamy when one set of women were shown dudes with working class jobs, then another group of women were shown the same guys, but with professional jobs like a doctor or lawyer.
But it really comes down to women dating pragmatically. And men dating for romance.
Comment by donaldyoung26 at 09/03/2025 at 04:31 UTC
-33 upvotes, 1 direct replies
This video is ragebait. its sooooo stupid!!!!
In the video it lists these things
Pretty man, relatively young? Well dressed well mannered
job. front desk receptions
3000 yuan or 414 USD PER MONTH 36000 yuan per YEAR
living with his parents
no house
no car
father is a worker
mother has mobility issues
not finanacially well off
10 000+ yuan in debt
Average catering employees make more than this fake receptionist.
In 2023, the average annual salary for employees in urban China was around 120,700 yuan, with significant regional and industry variations, such as IT sector employees earning about 231,800 yuan and hotel/catering sector employees earning around 58,100 yuan.
GOOD EXAMPLE
If list of attributes went like
[50k USD per year ,Plus commissions. Im in sales. Im still learning my trade. I aim to double and triple my income in the next 2-3 years. I mingle with high level executives everyday to learn what I can from them. I DONT have any debt. I have great credit. I live alone. I dont rely on my parents. I rent and I wont be buying a house because buying a house in America is a money losing proposition. Unless ofc you are buying in the middle of the country where houses are 100k. I dont have a car but will buy one that is 4-8 years used. Definitely dont mention that your mother has disability.
Cherry on top hes relatively young and handsome. ]
This would be a great example to test on the show.
What that guy said in the show SHOULD be rejected by every human being in the world!! male or female
lmao
Comment by PhulHouze at 09/03/2025 at 12:35 UTC
-7 upvotes, 1 direct replies
Meh, there is definitely some harshness in the way the female contestants communicated with him, a lot of which is due to cultural/language differences.
But at the end of the day, this guy is deceiving everyone and pretending it makes him some hero.
And the women are being reasonable. He comes in presenting an image of prosperity, and then shares a story of woe and low achievement. Yet at the same time painting a picture of a fairy-tale life. (Which somehow ends with opening a bar!?)
People can unconsciously pick up on inconvenience - when things just don’t add up. And it’s one of our least-favorite qualities in a person. You could say his deception was as much at fault for the rejection as his feigned poverty.
Comment by Tireless_AlphaFox at 09/03/2025 at 01:33 UTC
-108 upvotes, 3 direct replies
This is literally patriarchy, and some people still deny its existence and how it harms men