Comment by fartsondeck on 24/02/2025 at 19:17 UTC

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Asking, "Do you still enjoy this?" In a 24 year marriage is making my head spin. I really have nothing else to say. It's depressing.

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Comment by get_off_my_lawn_n0w at 24/02/2025 at 22:03 UTC

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No. Not really. It's not as bad as it sounds. She doesn't want me to, I am the one that *feels the need to.*

My parents' marriage is horrible. So I would prefer to check in with her every few months and make sure she likes how handsy I am. She says she loves it. I like that better than simply assuming everything is OK. You see it all the time, some dude chugging along, then getting blindsided by divorce papers.

Instead, I like knowing she's happy with me. If she wants to leave, doors open. If she wants to stay, Yaaay!

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