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View submission: How Men Become Aziz Ansari
Eh as someone who grew up in this specific flavor of bullshit it really is an exclusive thing with boys expected to be boys and all of the pressure on girls enforce it, and all of the shame if they don’t.
Comment by VimesTime at 18/02/2025 at 05:04 UTC
26 upvotes, 2 direct replies
Homeschooled pastor's son here. Speak for yourself. In my experience there is a ton of sexual shame heaped on men for their sexual desires in evangelical christianity and a lot of pressure not to have sex or even masturbate. It's framed as, frankly, the main sin there even *is* for young men. Maybe your experience was different? But you're being far too expansive in your appraisal here.
Comment by MadCervantes at 17/02/2025 at 16:48 UTC
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In your community perhaps but not in all communities.