Comment by optionalhero on 17/02/2025 at 12:25 UTC

10 upvotes, 2 direct replies (showing 2)

View submission: How Men Become Aziz Ansari

TLDW?

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Comment by chemguy216 at 17/02/2025 at 13:18 UTC

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Super TLDR: rape culture

Slightly more detailed TLDR: rape culture helps define some of our unspoken norms around courting for sex that have a give and take that often require women to feign disinterest in wanting sex and encourage men to pursue women despite that potentially false disinterest.

Bonus point: the situation between Aziz and the woman who went through this was worse than a lot of people read about/remember. I’m not TLDR-ing the telling of the story because details matter, and I’m not regurgitating all of the important details of that night.

Comment by get_off_my_lawn_n0w at 17/02/2025 at 15:47 UTC

24 upvotes, 0 direct replies

it's really worth putting the time in.