Comment by TAKEitTOrCIRCLEJERK on 26/01/2025 at 19:37 UTC

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“The thing that’s been really difficult is the father part of it all,” Babbitt said. “Like, my job is to protect everyone and provide for them, so I feel like I protected them in the sense that we got out of there. Now, the next step of what we do is a really big challenge. It’s a really tough spot to be in, and I’ve come across it with a lot of other dads.”

you guys ever been part of a disaster before? it fucking *sucks*. It's the most unsorted and uncertain you'll ever feel in your life.

as a dad, you'll pass that feeling on to your kids, because it's written on your face. as a kid, you are just aimless, trying to find waypoints. so any version of normalcy you can stake a claim on feels lifechanging.

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Comment by Thoughtlessandlost at 26/01/2025 at 23:53 UTC

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Disasters absolutely sucks. Especially the ones with devastation like this.

I was in southern Mississippi after Katrina helping clean up and that mental picture of all 5 senses is something I can recall perfectly even now. It's just surreal in a way to see stuff you had seen a month or two prior just completely gone.