IM FINALLY NO CONTACT WITH MY ABUSER

https://www.reddit.com/r/CPTSD/comments/1iishcg/im_finally_no_contact_with_my_abuser/

created by twinfantasydogs on 06/02/2025 at 02:53 UTC

112 upvotes, 11 top-level comments (showing 11)

i’m literally shaking writing this. i can’t go into the details but the man who made my life and my mom and brothers’ lives hell finally can’t contact me. i blocked him months ago but now he legally can’t speak to or contact me or my brother. it’s finally over. after over 20 years, it’s over. holy shit. i thought this day would never come, i just wanna cry happy tears

Comments

Comment by snail-exe at 06/02/2025 at 03:20 UTC

8 upvotes, 0 direct replies

It only gets better from here <3 It's going to feel difficult and you may think about the past often, but just remind yourself that you're safe now

Comment by LiViNgDeAd_CrEaTuRe at 06/02/2025 at 03:09 UTC

6 upvotes, 0 direct replies

I don’t know you, but i am SO proud of you! You’re free!

Comment by Juliju777 at 06/02/2025 at 03:01 UTC

4 upvotes, 0 direct replies

good job.

Comment by Hot-Ocelot-1058 at 06/02/2025 at 03:52 UTC

2 upvotes, 0 direct replies

Mazel tov!!!! Love this for you!

Comment by iiTzSTeVO at 06/02/2025 at 03:52 UTC

2 upvotes, 0 direct replies

Congratulations! Celebrate this new chapter, and prepare yourself for the healing to come.

Comment by DivineDubhain at 06/02/2025 at 03:58 UTC

2 upvotes, 0 direct replies

Congrats!!! 🎉🎉🎉

Comment by muerteroja at 06/02/2025 at 04:38 UTC

2 upvotes, 0 direct replies

So proud of you!!! I did that back in September but last week I went no contact with my entire immediate family. Feels good, right?!

Comment by InnerGlo at 06/02/2025 at 04:42 UTC

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Good stuff!!! Keep it up, the world is your oyster and enjoy finding the real you that’s inside ☺️

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Comment by pungent_pan at 06/02/2025 at 08:11 UTC

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🥺💞💞💞

Comment by MidwestBruja at 06/02/2025 at 15:47 UTC

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This is great news, and it makes me so happy. Congrats. Feel safe, but don't let your gard down.

Yay.