Comment by _YogaCat_ on 06/11/2024 at 19:03 UTC

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I am bi but ever so slightly. Meaning I've so far come across only one woman I've been very attracted to physically. So I have given up thinking that I'll come across another one. Sometimes I wonder if I should experiment a bit more but I feel scared because shouldn't I have figured out my sexuality by now? I'm 33 after all!

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Comment by Gloomy_Cheesecake443 at 06/11/2024 at 19:35 UTC

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There’s absolutely no timeline for “figuring out” your sexuality. I’m super serious about being terrified of dating men now so I’d say if you have the option to date women instead go for it.

Comment by Katerade44 at 06/11/2024 at 23:44 UTC

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I am 41 and only recently realized that I am pansexual and a sapiosexual. I thought I was bi, but it never quite fit how my attraction functioned. There is no wrong time to explore yourself and get to know yourself better.

Whatever your journey may be, I wish you well.