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idk i always get ick when guys on dating apps i talk to always ask me to go to their place on the first date. and then when i suggest meeting in a public space i get ghosted. like ok cool i'm the problem now for vetting for my own safety? ok lmao.
Comment by froderenfelemus at 25/01/2025 at 20:21 UTC
130 upvotes, 1 direct replies
They didn’t want a date, they wanted a quick time. Vetting successful
Comment by GasolineRainbow7868 at 25/01/2025 at 22:16 UTC
24 upvotes, 0 direct replies
Haha, I used to weirdly appreciate the guys who did that because most other guys would try to invite themselves to mine. Quite a lot would even ask me to cook for them 🤢 Like no, I am not cleaning my place, making a whole meal and getting dolled up for you the very first time we meet. But if they wanna do all that for me... Who am I to complain?
Comment by Mazikeen369 at 26/01/2025 at 08:13 UTC
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Or when they are okay with meeting somewhere, but insist on picking me up from my house. Nope, I will drive myself to meet you. Then it's radio silence.
Comment by Houndsoflove08 at 26/01/2025 at 11:04 UTC
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I am the one who ghosts when they pull out that trick.
Comment by illiodyssey at 27/01/2025 at 21:36 UTC
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It’s like they’re all reading from the same script. “Wanna come over and watch a movie? I’ll cook dinner.” Like sir, can I get a bare minimum vibe check meetup before I’m at your house??