What’s a sign someone definitely wasn’t raised right?

Zero civic-mindedness. It costs 0$ to throw your litter in the bin, refrain from parking in disabled bays, return your cart after use, stand and wait in line and the list goes on. If you can't even teach your kid which side of an escalator to stand on, you probably didn't teach your kid much else.

Comment by Visual-Piano-1768 at 08/03/2025 at 22:54 UTC*

1227 upvotes, 6 direct replies

Making fun of someone for something they can’t control.

Comment by LyraHavenn at 09/03/2025 at 10:17 UTC

157 upvotes, 1 direct replies

Honestly, it’s the lack of basic respect that gets me. Like, people who don’t say “please” or “thank you,” or who interrupt constantly. Or those who think it’s okay to leave a mess for someone else to clean up. And the entitlement thing, like they think the world owes them something? That’s a dead giveaway. Basic manners ain’t hard, and if they’re missin’, somethin went wrong somewhere. And when they just dont seem to have any empathy. Like they dont care if they hurt your feelings, or if they are just being mean. That’s a big no.

Comment by londisan at 08/03/2025 at 22:55 UTC

1917 upvotes, 6 direct replies

Not treating customer service staff well

Comment by xtingu at 08/03/2025 at 23:34 UTC

672 upvotes, 5 direct replies

People who use their phone on speaker in public, or watch videos without headphones/earbuds.

Also people who don't wash their hands after using the bathroom. WTAF

Comment by cyclingnutla at 08/03/2025 at 23:19 UTC

200 upvotes, 0 direct replies

Lack of manners, courtesy and empathy coupled with selfishness.

Comment by No_Reason8645 at 08/03/2025 at 23:17 UTC

422 upvotes, 2 direct replies

Never take any accountability for their actions

Comment by Icy_Construction_751 at 08/03/2025 at 22:57 UTC

465 upvotes, 6 direct replies

They expect never to be uncomfortable. Discomfort of any kind is a frightening or foreign concept to them.

Comment by macts at 08/03/2025 at 22:38 UTC

926 upvotes, 6 direct replies

Won’t put their shopping cart in the return.

Comment by Dwightussy at 08/03/2025 at 23:00 UTC

229 upvotes, 1 direct replies

Being rude to food service workers, cashiers, etc

Comment by Correct-Jellyfish124 at 08/03/2025 at 22:34 UTC

250 upvotes, 2 direct replies

Entitlement

Comment by redjellonian at 08/03/2025 at 22:36 UTC*

409 upvotes, 7 direct replies

Constantly lying

Casually lying

Overly attached to gold trim and appliances

Treating waitress/waiters poorly

Making trades but refusing to keep their part of the bargain or pay as agreed.

Comment by PM_ME_UR_FEET_69 at 08/03/2025 at 22:30 UTC

301 upvotes, 4 direct replies

No manners

Comment by Its_ya_girl_abs_ at 08/03/2025 at 23:15 UTC

115 upvotes, 3 direct replies

Someone who won’t even listen to someone who has a different opinion, just immediately yells and says they’re wrong and not even try to see it from a different perspective. Usually someone who lacks empathy as well.

Comment by Reasonable_Drop_7101 at 08/03/2025 at 23:19 UTC

118 upvotes, 3 direct replies

Stealing. I was friend with a girl at 19-20. She was an only child, her parents had both good wages and provided all she needed. She would steal just because she had the opportunity to do so: a bike left with its keys on it (when we left a party), or an iPhone that a drunk person lost. I was so mad at her. Why do you need to steal that instead of just be good to these strangers?? Ffs

Comment by ronnyjottenobvs at 08/03/2025 at 22:50 UTC

189 upvotes, 1 direct replies

They lack empathy and kindness

Comment by Thera_Margaret99 at 08/03/2025 at 23:14 UTC

104 upvotes, 1 direct replies

When the happiness of the person is making fun of others.

Comment by Smoothsailing4589 at 08/03/2025 at 22:49 UTC

126 upvotes, 2 direct replies

Narcissism. This is learned behavior from a parent that had a personality disorder.