Comment by 3lizalot on 08/03/2025 at 20:49 UTC

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View submission: What's something you never understood about the opposite gender?

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Stop thinking of it as a game, to start.

Understand that if you know her feelings on something and do it anyway, that sends the message you don't care about her feelings or whatever problems you're causing her.

If you don't know how she feels stop and think about how it could affect her emotionally and logistically. No one is asking for mind reading, but a grown ass adult should understand how their actions affect other people without it being explained every time.

Understand that being upset over something that wouldn't bother you doesn't mean she's wrong or should feel differently and respect her feelings.

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Comment by Abject_Champion3966 at 08/03/2025 at 21:54 UTC

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Sometimes I feel like 90% of women’s issues and relationships. Just boil down to wanting to feel like they’re paid attention to.