246 upvotes, 8 direct replies (showing 8)
View submission: What's something you never understood about the opposite gender?
Why men think women can get sex *whenever* and from *whomever* they want.
Comment by No-Sink-505 at 09/03/2025 at 01:19 UTC
175 upvotes, 2 direct replies
It's less this for me and more that they never seem to actually be willing to accept that the ability to "get laid" might not always be a good thing.
Like yes, I could go out and get some any night. If I'm willing to accept a fairly high chance of no orgasms, a moderate chance of no pleasure at all. And a too-high chance of violence, or potential long term complications like stalking or pregnancy.
Why is that supposed to be some sort of huge boon again?
Comment by Typical_Nebula3227 at 08/03/2025 at 21:53 UTC
151 upvotes, 3 direct replies
It’s because they’re only thinking about pretty women. They failed to notice ugly women exist.
Comment by ScarletLilith at 09/03/2025 at 00:05 UTC
35 upvotes, 0 direct replies
Well, we can get sex whenever we want...just not from whomever we want..
Comment by Haneul_sa at 09/03/2025 at 00:58 UTC
26 upvotes, 0 direct replies
I've seen people in the comments chalk it up to bad/good looks, but nobody seems to consider that some women just have no game and that's why they can't get laid (It's me, I got no game)
Comment by cheesemanpaul at 08/03/2025 at 23:25 UTC
47 upvotes, 0 direct replies
Both men and women can get as much sex as they like - it all comes down to standards. If you have no criteria for an acceptable sexual partner you can have a couple of shags a day if you can deal with the admin.
Comment by itsbeenanhour at 08/03/2025 at 21:28 UTC
11 upvotes, 0 direct replies
The men who think that probably would have sex with anyone or they wouldn’t say this?
Comment by garlicbewbiez at 08/03/2025 at 21:27 UTC
-8 upvotes, 1 direct replies
Pretty women can basically get sex almost whenever they want. My best friend is a woman and is constantly frustrated by men hitting on her all day. She could fuck any of these guys if she really wanted to no problem. It’s getting the guy you actually want that’s the issue. Attractive women have a lot of options. They almost always have a few guys chasing them at any given moment. Almost all they have to do is show up. But American culture makes women expect something from men, not just be there.
Comment by franckJPLF at 08/03/2025 at 22:16 UTC
-20 upvotes, 1 direct replies
Because they actually CAN. That doesn’t mean they DO.