Comment by avamomrr on 24/02/2025 at 14:47 UTC

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View submission: What's the longest unanswered question in your family's history?

My grandfather had a sibling who was institutionalized their whole life. We have no idea what was wrong with them.

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Comment by MotherofJackals at 24/02/2025 at 19:50 UTC

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Probably born with some obvious or assumed disability. People today don't understand the extreme pressure and social stigma that parents once faced having disabled children. There were actual laws forbidding those with disabilities from being seen in public.

Comment by Excellent-Ad-2443 at 24/02/2025 at 20:21 UTC

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thats so sad considering today people with disabilities are accepted to an extend...

a friend of a friend had a down syndrome baby 50 plus years ago now, the nurses asked her did they want them to take him away and put him in an institute she very much declined

Comment by cheap_dates at 25/02/2025 at 09:21 UTC

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My half sister's mother, Dad's first wife died in a mental institution. My father never talked about her and my mother said that all she ever knew was that "she was crazy".