What kind of person do you want to go out with?
+1 for humor if you answer “blond!” I find it impossible to describe a person I could fall in love with in words. There are so many factors or facets to a person that it is near-impossible to “linearize” all the information into spoken words – it would turn into endless rambling. There’s looks, which is in turn proportions, and colors, but there’s also movement, rhythm, talk, body language, and there’s dress, and fashion, which leads to taste, and interests, and personality, dominance, wishing, the list goes on for ever.
In a way it seems to me one of the **questions in life where your own life is the only way to express the answer**. Only by doing and choosing and talking can you give expression to what you think is important in your partner. Saying it out loud doesn’t help one bit.
Searching this site for similar pages after a certain *deja-lu* experience, I found that I had written about it already. See 2004-01-10 Religion.